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The Pecking Order? - Where Am I ?

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The DJ Pecking Order - Where Am I In That List?

Where am l in the pecking order or am I suffering from an inferiority complex? As a well-established & respected (in some areas) professional DJ and Compere I am occasionally being ignored! Let me explain what I mean.... I arrived at a venue recently knowing that I was appearing with a band — all well & good you may think. The bride and groom kissed all the band members, and greeted them warmly, then proceeded to ensure that all the performers had a hearty meal and drinks supplied for the evening. Moi? Not even acknowledged….no food, no drink…. Paranoia then started to set in a month later when I performed at a corporate function where the photo booth operator was kissed and hand shaken & given a drink as he arrived. Was I acknowledged? Nope. Am I invisible? Perhaps. The final straw was drawn when I performed at a wedding and the table dresser / flower arranger / chair coverings lady was lauded at the end of the night for a fantastic display. Am l invisible? I must be. i have compared my feelings and conclusions with a couple of my DJ peers. And, surprise, surprise, they are sometimes invisible too! Now consider this: At the first gig the band were paid fifteen times my fee! At the second, the photo booth operator charged £800. At the third event the table dresser lady charged £1500... Perhaps I need to put my prices up! I love my profession, & know that I will never be a millionaire, but would love it if my status was raised above that of cannon fodder!
P.S…. My faith was restored momentarily for one evening last night at the end of a wedding a group of teenagers, 17 -19 years of age I would guess, approached me as l was leaving the venue to not only thank me for a fabulous selection of ”banging tunes” (their words not mine) but also for my style of superb presentation & light show! Not only that, but they thought my car was a real lovely beast and asked how fast did it go? I was visible for at least one night.

P.S. My faith was restored momentarily for one evening. Last night at the end of a wedding a group of teenagers, 17 -19 years of age I would guess, approached me as l was leaving the venue to not only thank me for a fabulous selection of ”banging tunes" (their words not mine) but also for my style of superb presentation and light show! Not only that— but they thought my car was a real lovely beast, and asked how fast did it go? l was visible for at least one night.

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At After Dark Disco, we have been providing our DJ services in Sussex and the surrounding Counties for a number of years and our team of fantastic DJs will make sure that they go above and beyond to make your already special day even more special. When it comes to DJjing, we have a passion for everything that we do and we also pride ourselves on providing the highest level of customer service to our clients in Sussex and the surrounding Counties, some of the main reasons you should choose us for your DJ Hire are:

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